Now i count it an honor when people give me their personal encounters to publish. Its not easy and it doesn't happen all the time and hey, she really needs to hear from us so lets do well to drop our comments.
Here is it.
Babe, there is no need to publish my name naa, let me just go straight to the point.
I have a passion for photography and all my life i have always dreamt of becoming a photographer with my own world class studio and all, but i wanted to finish my BSC first. I am studying foreign languages. I met my boyfriend, or let me call him my EX because i broke up with him after this incident.
So i met him when in my 200l 2nd semester. Our relationship was very sweet except for the occasional character flops here and there from both parties. It was actually awesome, I would say 7/10. In my 300level, i moved in with him partially and we were playing the husband and wife role. Things got rosier. We would fight, make up like it was nothing.
One day, he came back and handed me a new Nikon camera. I was so excited because i had always wanted to own one of those Cameras. That was when i started noticing changes in his behavior. It was not like that was the first gift he bought me o, even though it was the first major gift. He gives me money, when i ask and he buys me clothes, and foots almost every bill. But after he bought the camera, he became overly possessive. He started complaining of little things and would always seize the camera whenever we have issues.
Little things like "why didn't you comment on my Facebook post? didn't you see my last picture? why didn't you like it?
''who were you talking to on phone before i walked in?
''How come there is no picture of me in this your camera, you're just taking other people''
Little quarrels like that. But the issue is not even the issues, its the way he always seizes my camera whenever he's angry, sometimes he would hide my sneakers and my favorite bag, all because he gave me money for them. After we make up, he would apologize and give them back.
So one day, he woke up one morning ad took my camera, i had a contract that day and when i was ready, i requested for the camera, he didn't say anything. He was giving me the silent treatment. I got so pissed off and we started exchanging words. I told him how childish it was whenever he does that and i told him i was tired of him. During the drama, i started packing my bags to leave his room. Guess what he said? right! He said i should leave my bag (my favorite bag actually), my fenty sneakers and one of my favorite sun shades. All because he felt i bought them with his money. I disagreed and he started dragging them with me. His neighbors gathered and he told them it was nothing serious.
He carried those items and locked them. I got so furious and since we were requesting what we gave, i went inside the kitchen to carry my pot of soup that i cooked the night before, i was about to leave with it but i had this devilish urge to do something crazy so i turned back, and emptied the pot of soup on is body. He raised his hand to beat me, God saved him, he didnt. After that, i carried my things and left.
The next day he brought my bag and other items to my friend's hostel and asked her to give it to me.
Sorry for the long story, but i want to know, is this even normal? like are there guys out there who have this attitude. If yes, please come and tell this honorable house why you are like that?
chilight. please help post,
Yours faithfully, Anonymous.
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Wow!
What will i say now? lool.
well, its so wrong to give a gift and collect it back. LIKE! SOO WRONG!! No matter what.
Even if its a house you gave, or car, or iphone100, its just so childish to request for it.
I actually heard of a guy that roofed his girlfriend's father's house, When they broke up, he went to the house and told the man that he wants to reroof the house with the latest roofing, The man got excited and removed the previous roof for the guy to come and put the latest one. Only to find out that the guy lied, he actually dissapeared and left the man roofless. LOOL.
Please comment your thoughts i don tire. lool
STAY SAFE.
Lol. The guy really need to grow up cos that doesn't and shouldn't happen in this world. But I can't judge fully just from your own story. And then this >>> 'I got so furious and since we were requesting what we gave, i went inside the kitchen to carry my pot of soup that i cooked the night before' Lol. Too many drama
ReplyDeletebiko i really need to hear from the guy too.. because i need to hear how he defends himself from this craziness
Deleteyou should check the next commenter's comment oo. lol. does that one need an explanation too?
DeleteAs if you had me in mind and posted this. My ex now, (we dated for like one minute), is currently asking me for the 12k he gave me to use and register for one online stuff. Note that I didn't ask. He voluntarily gave it to me. And this guy is like 32. So, I'm wondering, where is the maturity in that? I can't even do that. I just can't. Anything I give out as dash when the going was good is still dash unless it was lent. I'll sha give him. Just giving him a little time to change his mind.
ReplyDeleteOMG. lmaooo! This is serious oo. I didnt know that guys like that existed. wawu.
DeleteLol. This is getting interesting. I thought we only have drama queens? All these drama kings looking for what to collect back really have to slow down. Could it be the recession? It sounds childish though. Precious you remember the common saying that 'Age is just a number', so don't be too disappointed cos some in their 50s may even do worst. I rest my keyboard.
DeleteVictor you nailed it. Really not about age but maturity.
DeleteLol..so some guys think they can buy a girl's love and when the girl does not act the way they want them to, the money weh they don spend go pain them and so the only thing they think of that moment is to collect everything back.chai!but they'll get over it and see it as bad investment.
ReplyDeletePoster must have dated my ex! "why didn't you like my facebook post" really?
ReplyDeleteehn ehn... tell us abourrit. lool
DeleteLol...that's immaturity...the guy needs to know that a gift is a thing given willingly to someone without payment... in as much as the quarrel magnates your capability to let go shows how much a man you are!!!....for guys please don't give a girl what you can't forget in name to please her cuz that's the primary reason why guys can't let go
ReplyDeletespoken like a scholar. Thnks charles
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeletePot of soup
I haff died
Some guys tho. Timaya did that, most ppl do same but for huge stuffs like serious diamond engagement rings.
In my best opinion
Like I tell ppl, anything u give ur better half during courtship or marriage is an act of love at that rosy time and if things go south , move on and don't ask them back
Biko! You can't paybk enough
exactly. you cant payback enough
DeleteHahahahahahahahahahahahahahaa! Between the photo and the "roofless" story following it, i don't which one cracked me up the most. Lmao!
ReplyDeleteAnyhoo, guys like that abound and there is absolutely no reason whatsoever to continue in such an emotionally and almost physically abusive relationship at such a young age. Oh except of course you want to write your own "Book".