6.12.16

IJE LOVE: A perfect Relationship.

Sat down for a couple of minutes trying to think about a perfect relationship. Wanted the blog post to have a really good opening but guess what? Its not coming. There is nothing in my big bag of ideas about a perfect relationship and what it looks like.
Different people see perfect differently. Define your perfect. What's your perfect?


What do you want in a relationship? For me I want ''Peace of mind''
Nothing like peace of mind.
I have learnt that you need to define your relationship, by yourself, have some thoughts and whenever you do that, be truthful to yourself.

I am going to end here because I am not even big on relationships myself, lol!
I just know that I want peace of mind, once I have that, I can deal with any other thing.
However, this post is just to bring to your consciousness (if you have been dreaming of a perfect relationship and always comparing your relationship with Peter, James and their girlfriends.) that: its an illusion. Really. Define Your perfect by yourself.

Shalom.
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15 comments:

  1. Unknown12/06/2016 1:57 pm

    Well, my perfect involves lots and lots of gifts then respect. There is nothing more sexy than a man that respects me and gets me stuff no matter how little. It doesn't matter that im okay on my own. There 4 or 5 love languages. I guess mine is gifts then respect. #okbye

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    1. Chilightonline12/06/2016 3:35 pm

      lol. woman you have to come and tell this honourable house more about this your love language theory.

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    2. CHINENYENWA12/06/2016 11:26 pm

      Lol. The love language thing! Mine is Time and Money (in that order).
      Onto the "perfect" relationship, there's no manual/guide to it. It is simply unique to the couple involved.

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  2. Unknown12/06/2016 2:07 pm

    Well, my perfect involves lots and lots of gifts then respect. There is nothing more sexy than a man that respects me and gets me stuff no matter how little. It doesn't matter that im okay on my own. There 4 or 5 love languages. I guess mine is gifts then respect. #okbye

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  3. Unknown12/06/2016 2:31 pm

    To me, it's love and respect. The rest are bonuses. With Love and respect, i will withstand the imperfection. We could be perfect in the eyes of imperfection.

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    1. Chilightonline12/06/2016 3:37 pm

      love is too vast Mr B. narrow it down. for us small na

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  4. Oladotz12/06/2016 3:27 pm

    Nice write-up. Would have loved more in depth insight on the topic though. Nice work .

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    1. Chilightonline12/06/2016 3:39 pm

      me too Dotun! lool. that's probably why the comment section is there.

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  5. Unknown12/06/2016 3:48 pm

    No relationship is perfect, accepted but relationship that is base on simple understanding,respect and love is open to other imperfections to be perfect, because I believe understanding is the crystal foundation of a good relationship. That I concur.

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    1. Chilightonline12/07/2016 8:53 am

      Thanks Lovely for stopping by. I appreciate. Hope to hear from you again

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    2. Chilightonline12/07/2016 8:53 am

      Thanks Lovely for stopping by. I appreciate. Hope to hear from you again

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  6. Captain Nigeria12/06/2016 3:59 pm

    Hmmm, I am learning

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  7. Kingsley12/07/2016 12:13 am

    Lovely comments/replies. I still have lots to learn o

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  8. Unknown12/07/2016 7:58 am

    Hummmm. No man is fixed to a particular character or behavior, so my wants may be there for like 70% what happens to the remaining 30%... I think a perfect understanding should be my key want. @chilight

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    1. Chilightonline12/07/2016 8:47 am

      True. Understanding is very important. Coming from a newly married i should take note of that.

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